Good Morning Beautiful

"Good morning beautiful"

Three simple texted words that seem so genial but yet can be indicative the inner workings of who someone really is. I notice men who either do not know you that well and/or those you meet online tend to do this often. When I start talking to someone online and they finally get my number I know I'm pretty much getting that good morning text the next day, almost like clockwork.

I do enjoy text for making plans, clarifying plans, something that has purpose. I used to get all butterflied-up when I got a good morning text or sent one. I would await a sweet reply to my good morning text with held breath almost. So I knew when I received one I needed to respond fairly soon or they would think I am not feeling the same way back. How exhausting right?

What I find more often than not is those that are the most lonely tend to send the ever-quotidian good morning text. I have noticed that those that are divorced or freshly out of a relationship tend to send one. Including myself, when I felt the need for morning connection and conversation I would text the guy.

Sometimes people are just used to someone being there in the morning. So while there is nothing inherently wrong with the good morning text in itself; it does however let you know what kind of person that they are. The texter, the one who is just wanting to benignly text you good morning, is often relationship/clingy oriented. I was, they were, we are.

Textee beware.